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How to avoid getting sucked back into old habits

By Michal Spiegelman

As a Balance Expert, I help woman change their thinking, old habits, limiting beliefs and negativity. Together, we create lots of Balanced Moments in their lives.

Even for women that have made tremendous progress, it’s always disappointing to see an old negative habit return. (It just happened to me the other day, which I?ll share at the end.) It’s funny how quickly these instances make us forget how far we’ve come. I get questions about this all the time. Here’s one I got recently:

How can I avoid getting sucked back into old habits and negativity when life gets chaotic?

My Answer:

The first step is to accept it. Old habits and behaviors will sometimes pop up. To expect otherwise is unrealistic and will just cause more stress.

When you start to feel out of control and notice negative patterns, you need to Pause, Identify, Evaluate and Choose.

Pause and step back. Take an objective look at yourself and the situation.

Identify what’s really going on (what’s the problematic automatic response?) and look for an alternative attitude or a tool that’s helped you before in a similar situation, which helped you to cope with it better. Look within and find the solution.

Accept that you are human ? don’t expect perfection.

Choose how to respond and then move on. Trust that you made the right choice in responding. Don’t beat yourself up!

The other day I got a late-night text message my daughter (who lives away). She was very sick and couldn’t fall asleep. My automatic response was panic and worry. This wasn’t helpful for her and affected others around me. I was disappointed with myself for reacting that way. The next day she felt better and I felt better. I reminded myself to be loving and kind towards myself.

Usually, I know better. This time I didn’t. Not a big deal!

Expect progress, not perfection.

Meet Michal
Michal Spiegelman

Michal Spiegelman is Medical Intuitive who helps women get to the root source behind disease, disharmony, imbalance, stress, and trauma-related conditions.

Having studied in Israel, Germany, England, and the U.S., Michal is a Certified Professional Coach, a Reiki Master, and a former social worker who brings years of experience working with a variety of modalities into her intuitive teachings, coaching and mentoring.

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